Welcome to the Place for Poetry of the Personal!

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Confess your feelings of betrayal, fear, heartache or humiliation that you have experienced in your divorce or co-parenting situation.

Share a setting that you regret or a situation that may have caused anguish, misery or sorrow  for your co-parent.  Or, reveal actions that may have promoted emotional pain or unhappiness for your child.

Confessions are not limited to heartache only.  Please share heartwarming moments and happy experiences you have experienced in divorce and shared parenting too!  Perhaps, something your co-parent did or said that has enhanced your co-parenting relationship.  

Here is anopportunity to share the confessions about your divorce or co-parenting experiences. This can be something that you have told to family and friends or a private thought that has remained a secret…….until now. Focus on extreme moments of individual experiences.  

This is a place to confess what your co-parent did or said that led to your feelings of betrayal, fear or humiliation. Write about something that you enacted, a statement or a thought you expressed that caused grief for your co-parent, your child or yourself.  

We learn from others experiences and situations. Perhaps in reading these scenarios, co-parents can identify with issues they are also experiencing.   Hopefully,one can see how some actions can have long-term negative effects and cause pain for their co-parent or child!   Importantly, by reading these stories co-parents can see that they are not alone in the thoughts and feelings surrounding their divorce and co-parenting relationship.

Invitation is extended to:

  • Parents who are divorced or in the process of divorce.
  • Parents and co-parents (never married) who have children.
  • Parents who have or do not have a parenting plan in place.
  • Anyone interested in a front row seat to see the despair that divorce or co-parenting issues can have on a parent and how the actions impact the child.
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Breaking Family

 

A graphic depiction of parental conflict for one person. First section shows a happy family with a cheerful yellow  background.  Second section shows two parents fighting. Both parents appear mad, emphasized by the red background and black sharp edging above them. Three little ones are huddled together in the lower corner. Each with one single tear running down there cheek. Third section shows everyone is separate and turned away from each other. Both parents appear mad. Each child seems sad. The black background indicates gloom. How sad for this young artist. 

Section 1: “We were once a happy family. But the, there were fights, hate, sorrow and more if continued. ”

Section 2: “The fights continue til we all are broken and our family wasn’t a family anymore. “

Section 3: “Me and my two sisters suffered from their fights. Mom and dad both broken because neither would listen or understand.”

Deviant Art, breaking family by CandiceShadow

# 485, Breaking Family

Grabbing Hands

 

Appropriate for Halloween. A creepy portrayal of divorce.  Four, very large hands are trying to grab this child. Pointy nails seem to be clawing their way at her. This child seems very sad, burying her head and hiding her face as if to avoid the entire matter. One hand seems to be able to take her in a swift grab. Are these her parents trying to clutch their child? Seemingly, not one hand is kind, loving or making an effort to comfort her.  No one seems interested in how she is feeling or that her needs and wants are not dignified. 

Even more spooky is the number of parents who will miss out on this holiday of candy, costumes and fun.

#484, Grabbing Hands

 

 

No Treats This Year

 

A sympathetic message that will ring true for too many parents. Halloween is a fun holiday filled with wearing costumes, attending parties and trick or treating.  A child should have the opportunity to see both parents on this day. Both parents should have the opportunity to share in the fun.  Sadly, the person who misses out the most is the child! 

#484, Another Missed Holiday

Sad Flowers

 

Art is a creative outlet in sharing your inner most feelings and thoughts. This child shares sadness when asked to draw ‘how they feel about divorce.’ Both flowers are crying with flowing, large blue tears. Is this a  parent and child? Or, a child with an older sibling?  The large flower has leaves turned downward indicating sadness(?). Neither flower is smiling. Each has a cloud over them.  Are the parents aware of how this young artist is experiencing their divorce? 

#482, Sad Flowers

Bravery

 

Are you a parent fighting the same demons everyday? Do you feel the battle is endless? Family court issues may be emotionally exhausting and financially draining. Each day, parents are fighting for their children and are willing to do what is needed. Some days may be worse than others.  There is no need to suffer in silence.  Know that you are a BRAVE parent and you are not alone in your struggle.

 

As shared on Anxiety and Depression Support Group FB.

# 481, Bravery

I Hate Devorce

 

An emotional portrayal of parental ‘Devorce’. A red heart is at eye level. An adult(?) (or child?) is directing a very large knife to the ‘heart’ of the tree.  Is this one parent depicted as cutting the into the heart of the child? 

There are numerous jagged edges on the tree branches and leaves. Pointed branches and sharp edged leaves may be an indication of aggressiveness.  Is this the child artist demonstrating their hurt and pain by cutting away the heart? Undeniably, the title is quite revealing. 

 

 

#480, I Hate Devorce