Category Archives: Parental Experiences

A Father Left Out

June 1, 2015 By in All Confessions, Parental Experiences

 

Parental Alienation  takes place in many forms. Keeping your child from talking to your co-parent when they call is PA.  How frustrating for this parent (in this case dad) who is unable to talk to his daughter.  Meanwhile, this girl is led to believe the total lie her dad does not want to talk to her.  Will this little girl ever know the truth?  Will she ever realize the anguish and frustration endured by  her father in his multiple attempts to contact his daughter. PA is destructive to the child!  A child has a right to enjoy a loving relationship with BOTH parents! 

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Shared on Supporters of Shared Parenting Headquarters, April 8, 2015.

Link to FB page:  https://www.facebook.com/pages/Supporters-Of-Shared-Parenting-Headquarters/659255667507027?fref=ts

#149, Left Out

Emotions of a Loving Daddy

May 21, 2015 By in All Confessions, Parental Experiences

 

One father sends a message to his co-parent.  He  shares the heartbreak of trying to have a relationship with his son!  And, the frustration with the family court.  

 

I want to prepare my child for the future, but I’m limited. I’m subjected to mind games and humiliation due to ones beliefs. I’m looked upon as a risk and danger, that lacks capacity to raise a child. I’m seen as an aggressive monster that puts his own interest first. All these court orders have been put on me, like I’m an prisoner. When I’m alone I sit and cry, with such heart ache. No parent should be treated in such manner unless they are a danger. After wiping tears and taking a deep breath, it all makes sense. The more contact I have with my child the more he will say I miss you daddy, I love you daddy, when can I see you daddy, can I live with you daddy. You as the mother of my child shouldn’t be a alarmed by these words, be happy, why? Because it’s what our child wants. Be happy because I’m no father who makes babies and runs, be happy because I support you as far as my restrictions allow me to. The question I ask my self at the end of my tears, do you support me?

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As shared on Fathers That Care, May 18, 2015.

#108, Emotions of a Loving Daddy!

A Fathers’ Plight

March 22, 2015 By in All Confessions, Parental Experiences

 

A profound depiction of divorce for some parents.  Seemingly, this artistic flair reflects one of the perils of the family court system.

Use this as a reminder that…………………………………………………………………… Divorce  that.is between the parents-ABOUT THE CHILD!…………. LOVE WINS!!!!   LOVE WINS!!!!    LOVE WINS!!!!    LOVE WINS!!!!

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As shared on FB page:

The Fathers’ Rights Movement of Wisconsin, March 19, 2015.

Facebook page link: https://www.facebook.com/TFRM.WI

Post link:

https://www.facebook.com/Fathers4kids/photos/a.619783918052104.1073741835.342469599116872/935020953195064/?type=1&theater

 #87, A Fathers’ Plight

 

A Fathers’ Fear

March 13, 2015 By in All Confessions, Parental Experiences

 

A father expresses concerns about how things will change when his son begins school.  His comments about spending quality time with his son are heartwarming and resonate with many parents.

I don’t live with my child full time and this doesn’t leave me fearful, that he will love me any less then his mother. What leaves me fearful is when he starts school, i will become an every other weekend daddy. 12 days which is 288 hours without contact doesn’t justify myself having an influence on his education at all. Apparently the courts say time during the week with a parent isn’t quality time. So you mean feeding, bathing and reading bed time stories isn’t classed as quality time. Try going into your child’s empty room, or looking at his car seat every time you drive. Then you understand what true quality time is. All it takes is for a mother to say, yes you can have him during the week and that’s access granted. So as a man and father am i classed as an equal?

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Shared by Tremaine Walter, Fathers That Care FB page, on March 12, 2015.

Link to post:  https://www.facebook.com/Father.that.care/photos/a.150283514

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Link to Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Father.that.care?fref=photo

#77, A Fathers’ Fear

 

To My Daughters

February 25, 2015 By in All Confessions, Parental Experiences

 

One father shares his thoughts of love and hope.  

 

To my daughters, I miss you and love you very much. I promise we will get through this abuse and have a normal life someday soon. You are both so brave and strong to be dealing with this, hang in there, daddy is here for you.

xoxoxo

 

Shared on Parental Alienation Victims, Community FB page, July 30, 2011

Link: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Parental-Alienation-Victims/179750045416800?fref=pb&hc_location=profile_browser

 

A Mother’s Heartache

February 25, 2015 By in All Confessions, Parental Experiences

 

One mother shares her despair in hearing her daughter say “we have a new mommy now.”

 

I recall years ago going to my daughters birthday party. I was ‘allowed’ to come in and was directed to the seating area near the door. As my oldest daughter is opening her gift my younger daughter says “We have a new mommy now. We don’t want you to come here anymore.” I am not sure what happened next because I was dazed. The room was spinning. I sat there stunned. I was unable to speak. My sweet children did not know that the divorce was not my idea. I loved being a mother and taking care of my family I did not want to go through each day without seeing my children. Instead, the daily nightmare I was living dragged into weeks, then months, that resulted in years of not seeing my children.

 

My girls showed up one day-years later. They found me and I was thrilled. I am forever haunted by the discouraging words said by my youngest daughter and the feeling of total despair.

Missing Everyday Events

February 24, 2015 By in All Confessions, Parental Experiences

 

One father shares his feelings on missing the daily activities.

 

“(It) was really hard right at first with the divorce because you go through a period of time where, as a father, you’re so lonely in the first place, you want to overcompensate, you want to show the kids that you love them so much and that you care about them so much…you miss that relationship so much. When you go from having them every day, you know, the day to day things, as a father you miss tucking them into bed, saying their prayers, reading a book. It might just be coming home from work and asking them how their day at school was. It can be anything like that.”

 

As shared on Fatherwork

http://fatherwork.byu.edu/nonCustodial.htm

Missing Out

February 24, 2015 By in All Confessions, Parental Experiences

 

One father shares how he misses out on the day-to-day activities of his children’s lives.

 

“It was a tremendous feeling of loss for me. Even more so, it was a tremendous regret. To think about what it’s like when children first get up in the morning and they’re kind of sleepy-eyed and to give them a big hug and a kiss to be with them at the end of the day and to have dinner with them on a regular basis. The ability to just “have” all the little thing.

“The opportunities to express love and to give them a hug and to smile and ask them a question….just to be interested in what is going on in their everyday school lives, and all the little school programs that they’ve done that I wasn’t able to fly in for that were happening all the time. I always felt a tremendous sense of loss and that hurt.”

As shared on Fatherwork

http://fatherwork.byu.edu/nonCustodial.htm