“Oh what a tangled web we weave when at first we start to deceive.” A parent with narcissistic tendencies may display certain behaviors only behind closed doors and other actions when in public. This can be confusing to young children and frustrating for everyone involved.
#520, Web of Deception
Parenting issues should remain between the parents. Sometimes, parents use the child as a go-between. This puts the child in the awkward position of having to choose sides. A child wants and needs to have a relationship with BOTH parents. Divorce is between the parents and about the child. (From Whisper).
# 519, Parenting Issues (From Whisper)
A graphic image of parental conflict. This artwork shows each parent in distinct settings (different homes?). Child is in the center, covering their ear while straddling each home. Both parents are saying something with an angry tone based on the look on their faces and word bubbles. Notice how each parent is turned away from their child. ‘Communication’ lines in green and red indicate distress. Neither parent is paying attention to their child. Seemingly, this child is trying to explain their thoughts through art. Hopefully, one of these parents will notice how their child answers the question “How do you feel about being in the middle? As this child answers: scared, sad, want to get away, mad, worry.
#518, Is Anyone Listening, from Kids in the Middle.
Categories: Impat on child, A child’s view
A heartfelt pic of divorce from the perspective of the child? An adorable little girl is crying blue tears. She is crying out to daddy who seems distressed. Mom seems intent on taking the daughter in a different direction. An important point to make is children want and need to have a relationship with BOTH parents. I hope these parents figure out a way to communicate. Divorce is between the parents and about the child.
#516, Goodbye, Daddy…
Categories: Impact on child, A child’s view
Artwork, by a talented (anonymous) artist.
There are several elements in this artwork deserving of attention. Viewing the self-portrait, the child is split with a line down the entire page through the child. In the middle of the child there is another split. This is disproportionate with more space to the father. Each parent is pointing a dagger in the child. Is there significance because mom appears to be walking away and dad is walking toward the child? Both parents are smiling while the child is sad? Certainly, the child feels torn between the parents. Is either parent aware of how their child is experiencing the divorce? Seemingly, this artwork indicates the child needs help adjusting to the divorce.
#517, Heart and Dagger
Categories: Impact on the child, A child’s view.
What are the parents saying? Each parent is pointing a finger indicating they are trying to make a point. What words is this child hearing causing the large, flowing, blue tears. Even the dog, with wide eyes, seems startled by the parental conversation. Does either parent see how this is impacting their daughter. Hopefully, one parent will take a moment and comfort their child.
#515, What Are They Saying?
Patterns of communication established in early childhood impact every aspect of the child’s life. Parent-child relationships play a critical role in how the child develops. The artist shares how the strings of fear and guilt tend to keep the child from venturing out and developing as an individual.
#514, Clip Their Wings.
As shared on Parental Alienation Dynamics, Facebook.com/ParentalAlienationDynamics
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Quote from . Michael Bone, Ph.D.
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A father leaves one last message for the son he fought for in family court. This parent just wanted to have a relationship with his child. This is a tragic outcome of which there is no return. Will this little boy ever know the struggles this father endured seeking custody. This child will never know the love of his father. Suicide among parents of custody is a concern.
If you are thinking about committing suicide because of your family court battle. Please seek help. You are not alone.
#512, Last Letter
Is family court fair? Do both parents have equal rights? What ruling should be made? Sometimes, judges and attorneys know what the outcome should be in custody rulings One parent shares their devastating experience in family court.
“I had the exact same situation today in court (in discussing a similar case) she was caught right out lying on several occasions and I lost. I told how she mistreated me and the kids. Without hesitation the judge gave it (custody) to her. The solicitor said I should have won. I’m appealing”.
#511, Solicitor Agrees
First fight? Undoubtedly, this is not the first time this young lady has over heard her parents arguing. Pointing fingers, red faces, mean expressions…..a bad fight between parents. The adolescent is in the middle. Does she look exasperated? Is there meaning to her appearing below the parents?
Divorce is between the parents and about the child!
#510, Parents Fighting Badly
Shared Parenting Confessional 
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